Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through love and in love.
At such a moment, it is not the physical pain which hurts the most (and this applies to adults as much as to punished children); it is the mental agony caused by the injustice, the unreasonableness of it all.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that mental suffering from perceived injustice can be more painful than physical pain.
Viktor E. Frankl's quote highlights the profound impact of psychological suffering, particularly stemming from a sense of injustice. Both adults and children experience mental anguish that can overshadow physical pain, suggesting that the emotional and cognitive elements of our experiences often carry greater weight in how we perceive suffering. This reflection on human pain underlines the importance of fairness and reason in our interactions and the deep psychological scars that unfair treatment can leave behind.
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Example use cases
In a speech about the impact of bullying, one might use this quote to illustrate the emotional toll it takes.
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