Once a month we have 'dessert for dinner' night. I'll make four separate desserts. They'll come home from school and eat as much cake and custard and ice cream as they can physically get in their guts. Because sometimes I think, let them just be children.
Interpretation
Encouraging spontaneity and joy in childhood by embracing fun activities.
This quote highlights the importance of allowing children the freedom to enjoy the pleasures of life, like indulging in dessert for dinner. It suggests that parents should sometimes prioritize fun and joy over strict routines, fostering happiness and memorable experiences in their children's upbringing.
In practice
During a family gathering, remind everyone of the importance of fun moments like 'dessert for dinner' to bond and create memories.
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