Never once, during any of my bouts of depression, had I been inclined or able to pick up a telephone and ask a friend for help. It wasn't in me.
Kay Redfield JamisonRead
Mother, who has an absolute belief that it is not the cards that one is dealt in life, it is how one plays them, is, by far, the highest card I was dealt.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of how one responds to life's challenges rather than the challenges themselves.
In this quote, Kay Redfield Jamison illustrates the perspective that life is not defined by the difficulties we face but rather by our choices and attitudes in response to those challenges. The reference to 'cards' symbolizes the circumstances and events that happen in life, and the 'highest card' signifies the profound influence a mother’s belief and support can have in shaping one’s ability to navigate through life's ups and downs.
Themes
LifeBeliefChoiceMotherAttitude
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a motivational speech about resilience.
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