We couldn't imagine the emptiness of a creature who put a razor to her wrists and opened her veins, the emptiness and the calm.
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She lost much of her appetite. At night, an invisible hand kept shaking her awake every few hours. Grief was physiological, a disturbance of the blood. Sometimes a whole minute would pass in nameless dread - the bedside clock ticking, the blue moonlight coating the window like glue - before she`d remember the brutal fact that had caused it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote expresses the deep and visceral impact of grief on an individual's physical and mental state.
In this quote, Jeffrey Eugenides captures the profound effects of grief on a person's wellbeing, illustrating how it can disrupt basic functions such as appetite and sleep. The imagery of an 'invisible hand' symbolizes the relentless and haunting nature of sorrow, suggesting that even small moments can be filled with unbearable pain, as the individual grapples with the reality of loss.
Themes
GriefLossPainSorrowAppetiteNightDread
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a eulogy to convey the emotional turmoil of losing a loved one.
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