We couldn't imagine the emptiness of a creature who put a razor to her wrists and opened her veins, the emptiness and the calm.
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Depression is like a bruise that never goes away. A bruise in your mind. You just got to be careful not to touch it where it hurts. It's always there, though.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Depression is a persistent issue that can be sensitive and painful, requiring careful handling.
In this quote, Jeffrey Eugenides likens depression to a bruise that lingers, suggesting that it is a mental injury that may not be visible but still causes significant pain. He emphasizes the importance of being cautious around painful emotions, acknowledging that while it may not be apparent to others, it remains a constant presence in one's life.
Themes
DepressionMental HealthPainBruisesSensitivity
In practice
Example use cases
Use this quote during a mental health awareness event to highlight the internal struggles of those suffering from depression.
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