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There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self.
Francis Bacon
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The advice we give ourselves can often be as biased as flattery, differing significantly from the guidance of a true friend.

This quote by Francis Bacon highlights the inherent bias in self-counsel compared to the counsel received from a friend. It articulates that our own advice can be distorted by self-delusion, much like flattery, making the insights from a true friend far more valuable and realistic.

Themes

AdviceFriendshipSelf CounselWisdomFlattery

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech about the importance of seeking honest feedback from friends.

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