Normal, in our house, is like a blanket too short for a bed--sometimes it covers you just fine, and other times it leaves you cold and shaking; and worst of all, you never know which of the two it's going to be.
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there was not much distinction between losing a friend and a lover: it was all about intimacy. One moment, you had someone to share your biggest triumph, and fatal flaws with; the next minute, you had to keep them bottled inside.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Losing a friend can feel as painful as losing a lover due to the shared intimacy in both relationships.
In this quote, Jodi Picoult emphasizes the deep emotional connection that exists in both friendships and romantic relationships. The loss of such a bond is profound, as it involves the sharing of personal triumphs and vulnerabilities. When intimacy fades, one is often left grappling with their emotions in isolation, highlighting the significant impact of close connections on our lives.
Themes
IntimacyLossFriendshipLoveConnections
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used during a farewell speech to highlight the depth of friendships.
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