There's something about taking the path of least resistance that makes a lot of sense. But at the same time, we have to figure out which things in life are worth struggling through.
Angela DuckworthRead
Negative feelings are typical of learning, and you shouldn't feel like you're stupid when you're frustrated doing something. You might say to yourself, 'I can't do this,' but you should say, 'That's great.' That means you really have the potential to learn something there.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Negative feelings during learning indicate growth potential, not stupidity.
This quote highlights the normalcy of experiencing frustration while learning something new. Angela Duckworth emphasizes that such feelings are a natural part of the learning process and should be embraced, as they signify that one is on the verge of acquiring new skills or knowledge. Instead of viewing frustration as a failure, it should be reframed as an opportunity for growth and achievement.
Themes
LearningGrowthFrustrationPotentialEducation
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar about overcoming obstacles in education, this quote can inspire students to embrace challenges.
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