As a feminist of Egyptian and Muslim descent, my life's work has been informed by the belief that religion and culture must never be used to justify the subjugation of women.
I will never ally with Islamophobes and racists. But in the choice between 'community' and Muslim women, I will always choose my sisters.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes prioritizing solidarity with marginalized groups over alignment with prejudiced ideologies.
Mona Eltahawy's quote highlights the importance of choosing to defend and support Muslim women in the face of discrimination, rejecting alliances with those who harbor Islamophobic and racist sentiments. It reflects a commitment to sisterhood and solidarity among women, particularly in minority communities, demonstrating that the fight against oppression takes precedence over maintaining relationships with those who perpetuate hate.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a women's rights conference, one could use this quote to stress the importance of unity among women against hate.
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