Wendy, Wendy, when you are sleeping in your silly bed you might be flying about with me saying funny things to the stars.
James M. BarrieRead
Never ascribe to an opponent motives meaner than your own.
Interpretation
Avoid assuming negative intentions in others that you wouldn't apply to yourself.
This quote by James M. Barrie encourages individuals to refrain from attributing malicious motives to their opponents that they themselves do not possess. By promoting empathy and self-reflection, the quote suggests that one should hold themselves to the same moral standards they expect of others, fostering a more humane and understanding approach to conflict and disagreement.
In practice
In a debate, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of fair criticism.
Wendy, Wendy, when you are sleeping in your silly bed you might be flying about with me saying funny things to the stars.
His lordship may compel us to be equal upstairs, but there will never be equality in the servants' hall.
The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes, but in liking what one does.
It was then that Hook bit him. Not the pain of this but its unfairness was what dazed Peter. It made him quite helpless. He could only stare, horrified. Every child is affected thus the first time he is treated unfairly. All he thinks he has a right to when he comes to you to be yours is fairness. After you have been unfair to him he will love you again, but he will never afterwards be quite the same boy. No one ever gets over the first unfairness; no one except Peter.
But the years came and went without bringing the careless boy; and when they met again Wendy was a married woman, and Peter was no more to her than a little dust in the box in which she had kept her toys.
Never say goodbye because goodbye means going away and going away means forgetting.
When even the dictators of today appeal to reason, they mean that they possess the most tanks. They were rational enough to build them; others should be rational enough to yield to them.
Isn't it strange that I who have written only unpopular books should be such a popular fellow?
It is important to ask ourselves, as citizens, whether a world power can provide global leadership on the basis of fear and anxiety.
Abstract truth has no value unless it incarnates in human beings who represent it, by proving their readiness to die for it.
Man has the power to act as his own destroyer - and that is the way he has acted through most of his history.
We are so presumptuous that we should like to be known all over the world, even by people who will only come when we are no more. Such is our vanity that the good opinion of half a dozen of the people around us gives us pleasure and satisfaction.
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