Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
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Never participate in the secrets of those above you; you think you share the fruit, and you share the stones - the confidence of a prince is not a grant, but a tax
Interpretation
What this quote means
Involving yourself in the secrets of powerful people can lead to disappointment and burdens.
This quote highlights the dangers of aligning oneself with the secrets and practices of those in power. It suggests that while one may believe they are gaining benefits or advantages ('the fruit'), they may instead be inheriting problems and responsibilities that come with that association ('the stones'). The reference to the 'confidence of a prince' implies that trust and power are not free rewards; they come with expectations and obligations that can weigh heavily like a tax.
Themes
SecretsPowerWisdomBurdenResponsibilityTrust
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about the risks of ambition and power.
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