If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I am never proud to participate in violence, yet I know that each of us must care enough for ourselves that we can be ready and able to come to our own defense when and wherever needed.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of self-defense while disapproving of violence.
Maya Angelou's quote reflects a deep moral stance, where she acknowledges that while she does not take pride in engaging in violence, she believes in the necessity of being prepared to defend oneself when required. It highlights the balance between personal safety and ethical considerations, suggesting that self-care and self-defense are vital components of one's dignity and humanity.
In practice
This quote could be used during a self-defense workshop to emphasize the importance of being prepared without glorifying violence.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
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