I want to still be me when I wake up one fine morning and have breakfast at TiffanyΒ΄s.
Truman CapoteRead
I know the next best thing is often the very best.
Interpretation
Sometimes the alternatives we choose are better than the original options we considered.
This quote by Truman Capote suggests that what we often regard as the 'next best thing' can turn out to be more valuable or fulfilling than our initial choices. It emphasizes the idea that being open to other possibilities can lead us to unexpected and perhaps superior outcomes in life.
In practice
During a team meeting discussing project proposals, someone cites this quote to encourage the team to explore alternative solutions.
I want to still be me when I wake up one fine morning and have breakfast at TiffanyΒ΄s.
All writing, all art, is an act of faith. If one tries to contribute to human understanding, how can that be called decadent? It's like saying a declaration of love is an act of decadence. Any work of art, provide it springs from a sincere motivation to further understanding between people, is an act of faith and therefore is an act of love.
No one will ever know what 'In Cold Blood' took out of me. It scraped me right down to the marrow of my bones. It nearly killed me. I think, in a way, it did kill me.
Hot weather opens the skull of a city, exposing its white brain, and its heart of nerves, which sizzle like the wires inside a lightbulb. And there exudes a sour extra-human smell that makes the very stone seem flesh-alive, webbed and pulsing.
I don't want to own anything until I find a place where me and things go together.
The quietness of his tone italicized the malice of his reply.
What was alien was being ordinary, being humdrum, being trapped into appeasing...having to crush and stifle my opinions, not being allowed to be brilliant, tricking myself into mediocrity.
Don't complain about growing old β many, many people do not have that privilege.
I believe psychology has done very well in working out how to understand and treat disease. But I think that is literally half-baked. If all you do is work to fix problems, to alleviate suffering, then by definition you are working to get people to zero, to neutral.
Anger is a poison. It eats us inside. We think when we hate someone we hurt them, but hatred is a curved blade, and the harm we do to others we also do to ourselves.
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex, but eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, the memories, and make peace with them.
frustration, complication and misery are available in abundance, but so is God's grace.
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