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The next time you encounter fear, consider yourself lucky. This is where the courage comes in. Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear. When I was first married, my husband said I was one of the bravest people he knew. When I asked him why, he said because I was a complete coward but went ahead and did things anyhow.
Pema Chodron
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What this quote means

Embracing fear is a sign of true courage, as brave individuals confront their fears rather than avoid them.

This quote by Pema Chodron illustrates the idea that fear is a natural part of life and that true bravery is not the absence of fear but rather the willingness to face it. Chodron shares a personal anecdote highlighting that acknowledging one's fears and acting despite them is what defines courage, emphasizing a more nuanced understanding of bravery that resonates with many people's experiences.

Themes

FearCourageBraveryIntimacyAction

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles, one could use this quote to inspire others to embrace their fears.

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