Romance is very pretty in novels, but the romance of a life is always a melancholy matter. They are most happy who have no story to tell.
Anthony TrollopeRead
Nobody holds a good opinion of a man who has a low opinion of himself.
Interpretation
Self-esteem is crucial for how others perceive you; if you undervalue yourself, others will too.
This quote by Anthony Trollope emphasizes the importance of self-esteem and the way it influences the opinions of others. It suggests that a person who lacks confidence or has a negative view of themselves will struggle to gain the respect and positive regard of others, highlighting the interconnectedness of self-perception and external perception.
In practice
During a workshop on personal development, this quote can inspire participants to build their self-esteem.
Romance is very pretty in novels, but the romance of a life is always a melancholy matter. They are most happy who have no story to tell.
There is no happiness in love, except at the end of an English novel.
That I can read and be happy while I am reading, is a great blessing.
A man's love, till it has been chastened and fastened by the feeling of duty which marriage brings with it, is instigated mainly by the difficulty of pursuit.
But she knew this,βthat it was necessary for her happiness that she should devote herself to some one. All the elegancies and outward charms of life were delightful, if only they could be used as the means to some end. As an end themselves they were nothing.
Nothing surely is as potent as a law that may not be disobeyed. It has the force of the water drop that hollows the stone. A small dainty task, if it be really daily, will beat the labours of a spasmodic Hercules.
You may not enjoy loneliness, because loneliness is sad. But solitude is something else; solitude is what you look forward to when you want to be alone, when you want to be with yourself. So, solitude is something we all need from time to time.
The proximity of a desirable thing tempts one to overindulgence. On that path lies danger.
The key to growth is the introduction of higher dimensions of consciousness into our awareness.
Gentleness is the antidote for cruelty.
If uncertainty is unacceptable to you, it turns into fear. If it is perfectly acceptable, it turns into increased aliveness, alertness, and creativity.
When I was praised I lost my time, for instantly I turned around to look at the work I had thought slightly of, and that day I made nothing new.
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