Nobody holds a good opinion of a man who has a low opinion of himself.
Anthony TrollopeRead
Romance is very pretty in novels, but the romance of a life is always a melancholy matter. They are most happy who have no story to tell.
Interpretation
Romantic ideals are often more appealing in fiction than in reality, where true experiences can be bittersweet.
In this quote, Anthony Trollope reflects on the nature of romance in literature versus real life. While romantic tales can be enchanting in novels, the actual experiences of love and life often come with sorrow and complexity, suggesting that those who live without dramatic stories may find true happiness. This perspective invites readers to appreciate the simplicity of life over the embellished narratives found in stories.
In practice
In a speech about the contrast between literature and life experiences.
Nobody holds a good opinion of a man who has a low opinion of himself.
There is no happiness in love, except at the end of an English novel.
That I can read and be happy while I am reading, is a great blessing.
A man's love, till it has been chastened and fastened by the feeling of duty which marriage brings with it, is instigated mainly by the difficulty of pursuit.
But she knew this,—that it was necessary for her happiness that she should devote herself to some one. All the elegancies and outward charms of life were delightful, if only they could be used as the means to some end. As an end themselves they were nothing.
Nothing surely is as potent as a law that may not be disobeyed. It has the force of the water drop that hollows the stone. A small dainty task, if it be really daily, will beat the labours of a spasmodic Hercules.
Love yourself first and everything falls into line.
Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love. It is what we all do with our hearts that affects others most deeply. It is not the movements of our body or the words within our minds that transmit love. We love from heart to heart.
There’s a ghost of a dream that you don’t even try to shake free off because you’re too in love with the way she haunts you.
I don't know what people are scared of...maybe they think their children will be influenced by gay marriage, but I've got to tell you, I was raised by two heterosexuals. Everywhere I looked - heterosexuals. And they did not influence me. It's time we love people for who they are and let them love who they want.
Let us not be satisfied with just giving money. Money is not enough, money can be got, but they need your hearts to love them. So, spread your love everywhere you go.
All love will, one day, meet with its return. All true love will, one day, behold its own image in the eyes of the beloved, and be humbly glad.
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