To get away from one's working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one's self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change.
Charles Horton CooleyRead
There is nothing less to our credit than our neglect of the foreigner and his children, unless it be the arrogance most of us betray when we set out to "Americanize" him.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Neglecting foreigners and trying to impose one's culture can reflect poorly on our values.
This quote emphasizes the ethical responsibility we hold towards foreigners and their children, urging us to acknowledge their existence and humanity rather than turning a blind eye. It also critiques the arrogance of attempting to impose our culture on them, suggesting that such an attitude can undermine the richness of diversity and represents a failure of empathy and understanding.
Themes
ForeignersCultureArroganceEmpathyNeglect
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about immigration policies, this quote can highlight the need for empathy towards newcomers.
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