A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
It's a no-win argument - that business of what we're born with and what our environment does to us. And it's a boring argument, because it simplifies the mysteries that attend both our birth and our growth.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the complexities of nature versus nurture in human development, arguing that reducing it to a simple debate is unproductive.
John Irving suggests that the debate between nature (what we are born with) and nurture (how our environment shapes us) is not only inconclusive but also tedious. He emphasizes that both aspects are deeply intertwined and contribute to the complexities of human existence, and thus oversimplifying this relationship undermines the richness of our understanding of life and personal growth.
Themes
NatureNurtureGrowthComplexityPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
This quote would be great to include in a discussion about child development in psychology class.
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