Envy, propelled by fear, can be even more toxic than anger, because it involves the thought that other people enjoy the good things of life which the envier can't hope to attain through hard work and emulation.
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I find so often, you know, just on a very mundane level; you've got a meeting and your child's acting in a school play. You can't do both things. And it's not simply that you can't do both, but whatever you do, you're going to be neglecting something that's really important.
Interpretation
What this quote means
You can't do everything at once, and important aspects of life may be neglected in the process.
Martha Nussbaum emphasizes the challenges of balancing responsibilities, particularly between work and family. She points out that in our busy lives, there are moments where choices must be made, and often those choices involve prioritizing one commitment over another, which can lead to neglecting what truly matters, such as family and personal relationships.
Themes
BalanceNeglectResponsibilityCommitmentPrioritization
In practice
Example use cases
During a parent-teacher meeting, a mother might quote this to describe her struggle between professional duties and family obligations.
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