We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
Arthur SchopenhauerRead
It often happens that we blurt out things that may in some kind of way be harmful to us, but we are silent about things that may make us look ridiculous; because in this case effect follows very quickly on cause.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People often speak without thinking and say things that can hurt them, while they stay silent about things that could embarrass them.
In this quote, Schopenhauer reflects on the human tendency to speak candidly about potentially damaging topics while avoiding discussion of matters that could lead to personal embarrassment. He suggests that the repercussions of our words often prompt us to self-censor, indicating a complex relationship between honesty, fear of judgment, and the consequences of our communication.
Themes
CommunicationHonestyFearEmbarrassmentConsequences
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the importance of thinking before speaking in a public speaking workshop.
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