Pride is founded not on the sense of happiness, but on the sense of power.
William HazlittRead
Old friendships are like meats served up repeatedly, cold, comfortless, and distasteful. The stomach turns against them.
Interpretation
Old friendships can become unfulfilling and unpleasant over time.
This quote compares old friendships to repeatedly served cold meats, suggesting that, like stale food, these relationships lose their initial warmth and joy. As time goes on, what once provided comfort can become distasteful and leave one feeling unsettled, highlighting the natural evolution and sometimes decline of friendships as people change.
In practice
During a reunion speech, reflecting on how friendships have changed over the years.
Pride is founded not on the sense of happiness, but on the sense of power.
The world loves to be amused by hollow professions, to be deceived by flattering appearances, to live in a state of hallucination; and can forgive everything but the plain, downright, simple, honest truth.
Our repugnance to death increases in proportion to our consciousness of having lived in vain.
We can bear to be deprived of everything but our self-conceit.
There are few things in which we deceive ourselves more than in the esteem we profess to entertain for our firends. It is little better than a piece of quackery. The truth is, we think of them as we please, that is, as they please or displease us.
Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater. Possession pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it.
He is a friend indeed who proves himself a friend in need.
I would rather die than betray his trust." "That's not saying much, seeing as you're already dead," Ron observed. "Once again, you show all the sensitivity of a blunt axe," said Nearly Headless Nick in affronted tones.
Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow ripening fruit.
What was more, they had taken the first step toward genuine friendship. They had exchanged vulnerabilities.
One measure of friendship consists not in the number of things friends can discuss, but in the number of things they need no longer mention.
When you are not feeling particularly friendly but know you ought to be, the best thing you can do, very often, is to put on a friendly manner and behave as if you were a nicer person than you actually are. And in a few minutes, as we have all noticed, you will be really feeling friendlier than you were.
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