Pride is founded not on the sense of happiness, but on the sense of power.
William HazlittRead
There are few things in which we deceive ourselves more than in the esteem we profess to entertain for our firends. It is little better than a piece of quackery. The truth is, we think of them as we please, that is, as they please or displease us.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We often misrepresent our true feelings towards our friends, believing we respect them more than we actually do.
In this quote, William Hazlitt points out the self-deception we engage in regarding our feelings for friends. He suggests that our esteem for friends is often superficial, influenced by their actions and our perceptions, rather than being a genuine and stable regard for them.
Themes
FriendshipSelf-DeceptionEsteemPerceptionRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the nature of true friendship, one could reference Hazlitt's insights into self-deception.
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