No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
Malcolm GladwellRead
The older I get, the more I understand that the only way to say valuable things is to lose your fear of being correct.
Interpretation
Valuable insights come from overcoming the fear of being wrong.
Malcolm Gladwell emphasizes that as one matures, the realization dawns that true value in communication is found not in always being correct, but in expressing thoughts authentically and without fear. This understanding encourages individuals to embrace vulnerability and honesty in their dialogues, leading to more meaningful and impactful exchanges.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth.
No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
People are in one of two states in a relationship,” Gottman went on. “The first is what I call positive sentiment override, where positive emotion overrides irritability. It’s like a buffer. Their spouse will do something bad, and they’ll say, ‘Oh, he’s just in a crummy mood.’ Or they can be in negative sentiment override, so that even a relatively neutral thing that a partner says gets perceived as negative.
The people at the top don't work just harder or even much harder than everyone else. They work much, much harder.
Achievement is talent plus preparation. The problem with this view is that the closer psychologists look at the careers of the gifted, the smaller the role innate talent seems to play and the bigger the role preparation seems to play.
When I go to my health club, and it's in the basement, you have to take the elevator down. And this drives me crazy. Why can't there be a stairway? At least make it as easy to exercise as it is to not exercise. It's in society's interest for me to take the stairs.
Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning.
Can I give them what they think they're going to get from me? That's always the big question.
Agency is a divine gift to you. You are free to choose what you will be and what you will do.
You may control a mad elephant; You may shut the mouth of the bear and the tiger; Ride the lion and play with the cobra; By alchemy you may learn your livelihood; You may wander through the universe incognito; Make vassals of the gods; be ever youthful; You may walk in water and live in fire; But control of the mind is better and more difficult.
All moments are beautiful, only you have to be receptive and surrendering. All moments are blessings, only you have to be capable of seeing. All moments are benedictions. If you accept with a deep gratitude, nothing ever goes wrong.
Learn to be pleased with everything, with wealth so far as it makes us beneficial to others; with poverty, for not having much to care for; and with obscurity, for being unenvied.
The holy child is waiting to be born in every instant, not just once a year.
Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.