Quitting, for me, means not giving up, but moving on; changing direction not because something doesn’t agree with you, but because you don’t agree with something. It’s not a complaint, in other words, but a positive choice, and not a stop in one’s journey, but a step in a better direction. Quitting-whether a job or a habit-means taking a turn so as to be sure you’re still moving in the direction of your dreams.
One curiosity of being a foreigner everywhere is that one finds oneself discerning Edens where the locals see only Purgatory.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Experiencing life as an outsider allows one to appreciate beauty and tranquility that locals might overlook.
Pico Iyer's quote reflects on the unique perspective of foreigners who, while navigating new environments, are often more attuned to the beauty and tranquility of their surroundings. This fresh outlook enables them to discover 'Edens'—ideal or idyllic places—while locals, fully immersed in their daily struggles, may only perceive their environment as 'Purgatory', a state of suffering or hardship. This suggests that sometimes, a distance from familiarity can lead to deeper appreciation and understanding of places and experiences.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a travel presentation to highlight the beauty of other cultures.
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