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No one ever tells us to stop running away from fear...the advice we usually get is to sweeten it up, smooth it over, take a pill, or distract ourselves, but by all means make it go away. (5)
Pema Chodron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of facing our fears instead of avoiding or masking them.

Pema Chodron highlights the common tendency in society to avoid confronting our fears, instead opting for methods that merely distract us or make us feel better temporarily. This quote urges us to stop running away and confront our fears directly, suggesting that true growth and understanding come from facing the difficult emotions we often try to escape.

Themes

FearCourageAvoidanceEmotionsGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational talk about personal development.

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