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One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all griefs, when there is no bitterness in them, are soothed down by time.
Jane Welsh Carlyle
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Time has a way of healing emotional pain and grief, especially when it is accepted without resentment.

This quote reflects the idea that grief often feels overwhelming and unending at the moment, but with the passage of time, it tends to become more bearable, particularly when one adopts a mindset free of bitterness. It suggests that while grief can be profound, it is not a permanent state, as the healing process does take place, allowing individuals to find solace and peace over time.

Themes

GriefTimeHealingBitternessEmotional Pain

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about overcoming loss, one might say, 'As Jane Welsh Carlyle wisely noted, while it feels like grief will last forever, time helps us heal.'

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I declare I would rather be a kitten and cry, 'Mew!' than live as I see many of my female acquaintances do, tearing each other's characters to pieces, and wearing out their lives in vanity and vexation of spirit.
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But what are friends? What is a husband, even, compared with one's Mother? Of her love, one is always so sure! It is the only love that nothing - not even misconduct on our part - can take away from us.
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Never does one feel oneself so utterly helpless as in trying to speak comfort for great bereavement.
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