How many precious things do we not already possess which others have not - have hardly an idea of! Let us enjoy these, then, and bless God that we are permitted to enjoy them, rather than importune His goodness with vain longings for more.
Interpretation
We often overlook the valuable things we already have in pursuit of more.
In this quote, Jane Welsh Carlyle reflects on the idea that we possess many precious things in our lives that we take for granted while longing for additional blessings. Instead of constantly yearning for more, she encourages us to appreciate and cherish what we already have, recognizing these gifts as blessings rather than focusing on unfulfilled desires.
In practice
In a motivational speech about finding joy in everyday life.
Does not a man physically tremble under the mere look of a wild beast or fellow-man that is stronger than himself? Does not a woman redden all over when she feels her lover's eyes on her? How then should one doubt the mysterious power of one individual over another?
The surest way to get a thing in this life is to be prepared for doing without it, to the exclusion even of hope.
I declare I would rather be a kitten and cry, 'Mew!' than live as I see many of my female acquaintances do, tearing each other's characters to pieces, and wearing out their lives in vanity and vexation of spirit.
One feels as if it could never, never be less. And yet all griefs, when there is no bitterness in them, are soothed down by time.
But what are friends? What is a husband, even, compared with one's Mother? Of her love, one is always so sure! It is the only love that nothing - not even misconduct on our part - can take away from us.
Never does one feel oneself so utterly helpless as in trying to speak comfort for great bereavement.
Do not follow vain desires; for verily he who prospers is preserved from lust, greed and anger.
Sometimes it takes darkness and the sweet_x000D_ confinement of your aloneness_x000D_ to learn_x000D_ anything or anyone_x000D_ that does not bring you alive_x000D_ is too small for you.
The dullness of the fool is the whetstone of the wits.
In pain there is as much wisdom as in pleasure: like the latter it is one of the best self preservatives of a species.
The man of thought who will not act is ineffective; the man of action who will not think is dangerous.
You know, I've learned a lot from every person I've collaborated with, from Madlib to Jean Grae and Hi-Tek, to Mos to DJ Quik, to even somebody like Jermaine Dupri. I've taken something important away from every experience.
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