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No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being until he loves him. By his love he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true.
Viktor E. Frankl
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What this quote means

Understanding and love unlock the potential within each person.

This quote by Viktor E. Frankl emphasizes the profound connection between love and self-awareness. It suggests that true love allows individuals to perceive not only the essential qualities of another person but also their hidden potentials. By loving someone, we enable them to realize who they can truly become, thereby facilitating their personal growth and transformation. Love acts as a catalyst for both understanding and actualizing one's potential.

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LovePotentialUnderstandingGrowthRelationship

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding speech, one could use this quote to highlight the importance of love in understanding one another.

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