Rights are best guarded when each person and group guards for others those rights they wish guarded for themselves.
I suppose no one is as handsome or as beautiful as he or she wishes, or as brilliant in school or as witty in speech or as wealthy as we would like, but in a world of varied talents and fortunes that we can't always command, I think that makes even more attractive the qualities we can command--such qualities as thoughtfulness, patience, a kind word, and true delight in the accomplishment of another. These cost us nothing, and they can mean everything to the one who receives them.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of qualities like thoughtfulness and kindness over superficial attributes like beauty or wealth.
In this quote, Jeffrey R. Holland reflects on the unrealistic standards that society often imposes regarding beauty, intelligence, and wealth. He suggests that while many people may feel inadequate in comparison to these ideals, the true value lies in the qualities we can actively nurture and offer to others, such as kindness, patience, and genuine happiness for others' successes. These qualities, though often overlooked, are invaluable and can make a profound difference in the lives of those around us.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal development and self-worth.
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All quotes →For 179 years [The Book of Mormon] has been examined and attacked, denied and deconstructed, targeted and torn apart like perhaps no other religious history – perhaps like no other book in any religious history- and still, it stands.
Don't you quit. You keep walking, you keep trying, there is help and happiness ahead. Some blessings come soon. Some come late. Some don't come until heaven. But for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come. It will be alright in the end. Trust God and believe in Good Things to Come.
Maybe the purchasing and the making and the wrapping and the decorating - those delightfully generous and important expressions of our love at Christmas - should be separated, if only slightly, from the more quiet, personal moments when we consider the meaning of the Baby (and his birth) who prompts the giving of such gifts.
Don't you quit! You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help & happiness ahead.
Brothers and sisters, this is a divine work in process, with the manifestations and blessings of it abounding in every direction, so please don’t hyperventilate if from time to time issues arise that need to be examined, understood, and resolved. They do and they will. In this Church, what we know will always trump what we do not know. And remember, in this world, everyone is to walk by faith.
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One thorn of experience is worth a whole wilderness of warning.
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