Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Oscar WildeRead
One of the many lessons that one learns in prison is, that things are what they are and will be what they will be.
Interpretation
Acceptance of reality is a profound lesson learned in difficult situations.
This quote by Oscar Wilde reflects on the understanding that, particularly in challenging environments like prison, one comes to realize that acceptance of one's circumstances is critical. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing that reality cannot always be changed, and that peace can be found in understanding and accepting the nature of things as they are, fostering a sense of resilience and clarity.
In practice
In a motivational speech about resilience, one might quote Wilde to emphasize acceptance.
Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
Do not speak harshly to any one; those who are spoken to will answer thee in the same way. Angry speech is painful: blows for blows will touch thee.
When we renounce our dreams, we find peace and enjoy a brief period of tranquillity, but the dead dreams begin to rot inside us and to infect the whole atmosphere in which we live. What we hoped to avoid in the Fight -disappointment and defeat- become the sole legacy of our cowardice.
If you're not stubborn, you'll give up on experiments too soon. And if you're not flexible, you'll pound your head against the wall and you won't see a different solution to a problem you're trying to solve.
The next message you need is always right where you are.
I don't suppose that I know more about life than anyone of my age, but it seems to me that, in the capacity of an interlocutor, a book is more reliable than a friend or a beloved.
Others may try to feed our ego, but it is up to us to constrain it.
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