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One of the marks of a certain type of bad man is that he cannot give up a thing himself without wanting every one else to give it up. That is not the Christian way. An individual Christian may see fit to give up all sorts of things for special reasons--marriage, or meat, or beer, or the cinema; but the moment he starts saying the things are bad in themselves, or looking down his nose at other people who do use them, he has taken the wrong turning.
C. S. Lewis
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of personal choice and humility in giving up pleasures without condemning others for their choices.

C. S. Lewis highlights that true virtue in a Christian context involves personal sacrifices made for personal reasons, rather than creating a judgmental stance towards others. He asserts that an individual's decision to abstain from certain pleasures should not come with an air of superiority or a belief that those pleasures are inherently wrong for everyone else. This perspective fosters a sense of community and respects individual choices without imposing one's values onto others.

Themes

SacrificeHumilityPersonal ChoiceJudgmentChristianity

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used in a church sermon discussing the nature of self-sacrifice and compassion.

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