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One of the most mawkish of human delusions is the notion that friendship should be eternal, or, at all events, life-long, and that any act which puts a term to it is somehow discreditable.
H. L. Mencken
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Friendship is often seen as a lifelong commitment, but it's a misconception that every friendship must last forever.

H. L. Mencken's quote challenges the romanticized view of friendship as something that must be eternal or life-long. He suggests that it is a human delusion to think of friendships in such a rigid way, and that ending a friendship should not be seen as a discreditable act, but rather a natural part of life that can happen for various reasons.

Themes

FriendshipDelusionRelationshipsLifeNaturalChange

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about the evolution of friendships over time.

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