If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
One must know not just how to accept a gift, but with what grace to share it.
Interpretation
It is important to not only accept generosity but to also share it graciously with others.
This quote by Maya Angelou emphasizes the dual nature of receiving and giving. Accepting a gift is one part of the equation, but understanding how to share that gift thoughtfully and graciously is equally important. It suggests that true appreciation of what we receive involves extending kindness and generosity back to others, creating a cycle of goodwill and community.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about the importance of generosity at a charity event.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
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Let us be merciful in our mental judgments of our brothers and sisters, for, in truth, we are all one, and the more deeply they seem to err, the more urgent is the need for us to help them with the right thought, and so make it easier for them to get free.
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Let my skin and sinews and bones dry up, together with all the flesh and blood of my body! I welcome it! But I will not move from this spot until I have attained the supreme and final wisdom.
But because of his telling, many who did not believe have come to believe, and some who did not care have come to care. He tells the story, out of infinite pain, partly to honor the dead, but also to warn the living - to warn the living that it could happen again and that it must never happen again. Better than one heart be broken a thousand times in the retelling, he has decided, if it means that a thousand other hearts need not be broken at all. (vi)
I had much rather be adorned by beauty of character than by jewels. Jewels are the gift of fortune, character comes from within.
You can fool some of the people some of the time -- and that's enough to make a decent living.
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