Love consists in leaving the loved one space to be themselves while providing the security within which that self may flourish.
Tony JudtRead
No one wants to live in a wheelchair unable to talk, only winking once for yes and twice for no. It's perfectly reasonable that there will come a point where the balance of judgment of life over death swings the other way.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the deep desire for quality of life and the difficult decisions surrounding end-of-life care.
Tony Judt reflects on the harsh realities of living with severe disabilities and the inherent challenges faced in such a state. He acknowledges that while life is valuable, there may come a time when the struggles faced in living become too great, prompting a reconsideration of the value of continued existence versus a dignified end. This contemplation forces society to grapple with the ethics of life and death, especially when quality of life severely diminishes.
Themes
Quality Of LifeEnd Of LifeDisabilityLife DecisionsDignity
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about healthcare policies and patient rights.
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