We often fancy that we suffer from ingratitude, while in reality we suffer from self-love.
Walter Savage LandorRead
We listen to those whom we know to be of the same opinion as ourselves, and we call them wise for being of it; but we avoid such as differ from us.
Interpretation
We tend to prefer and affirm those who share our views, often mistaking agreement for wisdom.
This quote highlights the human tendency to seek validation from like-minded individuals and to regard their insights as wise, while disregarding differing perspectives. It suggests that true wisdom requires the courage to listen to opposing views and recognize the value in differing opinions, rather than just surrounding ourselves with those who reinforce our beliefs.
In practice
During a debate, one might use this quote to encourage openness to different perspectives.
We often fancy that we suffer from ingratitude, while in reality we suffer from self-love.
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