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If others tell us something we make assumptions, and if they don't tell us something we make assumptions to fulfill our need to know and to replace the need to communicate. Even if we hear something and we don't understand we make assumptions about what it means and then believe the assumptions. We make all sorts of assumptions because we don't have the courage to ask questions.
Miguel Angel Ruiz
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We often make assumptions when we lack communication, which can lead to misunderstandings.

This quote highlights the tendency of people to fill in gaps in their understanding with assumptions instead of seeking clarity through questions. It suggests that fear or discomfort in communication often drives us to create narratives about situations or others, which can result in misinterpretations and missed connections.

Themes

AssumptionsCommunicationUnderstandingCourageQuestions

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting, one could use this quote to emphasize the importance of clear communication over assumptions.

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