Etiquette requires the presumption of good until the contrary is proved.
Emily PostRead
An overdose of praise is like 10 lumps of sugar in coffee; only a very few people can swallow it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Excessive praise can be overwhelming and may not be appreciated by everyone.
Emily Post's quote highlights the idea that while praise can be positive, too much of it becomes insincere and can lead to discomfort. Just as too much sugar can ruin a cup of coffee, an overdose of flattery or commendation can diminish the value and authenticity of genuine appreciation, making it difficult for individuals to accept or respond to it appropriately.
Themes
PraiseComplimentRecognitionOverwhelmSugar
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a seminar about effective communication to illustrate the balance between positive feedback and genuine praise.
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