He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Pain cannot be easily avoided; it tends to manifest in different ways regardless of our attempts to suppress it.
This quote by Irvin D. Yalom highlights the inevitability of pain in life. When we try to shut out or ignore our suffering, it often resurfaces in unexpected forms or places, suggesting that rather than evading pain, we should confront and understand it to truly heal and grow.
Themes
PainSufferingHealingEmotionsLife
In practice
Example use cases
During a mental health seminar, to discuss the importance of facing one's emotions.
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