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This is how to avoid re-creating painful situations: Take the time to discover your real intention before you act. If it is to change someone or the world so that you will feel safe or better about yourself, don't act on it, because it is an intention of fear and can create only painful consequences.
Gary Zukav
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Understanding your true intentions is crucial to avoiding negative outcomes.

This quote emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and reflection before taking action. It suggests that if one's motives stem from fear—such as an attempt to change others or external circumstances for personal comfort—they are likely to lead to pain and negative consequences. Therefore, taking the time to examine one's intentions can help prevent recurrence of past harmful situations.

Themes

IntentionFearSelf-AwarenessPainAction

In practice

Example use cases

In a self-help workshop, one might use this quote to encourage attendees to reflect on their motivations.

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