You know what they say: A woman needs a man about as much as a fish needs a bicycle.
Candace BushnellRead
My parents had a great marriage. Interestingly, it made it harder for me in relationships because I knew what a good relationship looked like.
Interpretation
Having role models for a good relationship can create high expectations for personal relationships.
In this quote, Candace Bushnell reflects on how witnessing her parents' successful marriage set a standard for her own relationships. While their strong partnership served as a benchmark for her, it also made it challenging to find similar depth and connection in her own romantic endeavors, highlighting how exemplary models can shape our expectations and experiences in love.
In practice
This quote would be fitting in a discussion about the influence of family dynamics on personal relationships.
You know what they say: A woman needs a man about as much as a fish needs a bicycle.
If a woman could take care of herself, would she still need a man? Would she even want one? And if she didn't want a man, what kind of woman would she be? Would she even be a woman? Because it seemed if you were a woman, the only thing you were really supposed to want was a man.
If I'm with a man, is that going to prevent me from achieving my goal? What sacrifices will I have to make in terms of being myself, if I'm with a man? Something that young women find out really quickly is that when you start dating, all of a sudden you're supposed to have a role. You're not allowed to just be yourself.
Whoever we are here, we might be princesses somewhere else. Or writers. Or scientists. Or presidents. Or whatever the hell we want to be that everyone else says we can't.
The first service that one owes to others in the fellowship consists of listening to them. Just as love of God begins with listening to his word, so the beginning of love for our brothers and sisters is learning to listen to them.
You cannot have all chiefs; you gotta have Indians too._x000D_ _x000D_ Perfect love cannot be without equality._x000D_ _x000D_ A friend to everybody and to nobody is the same thing._x000D_ _x000D_ We are all alike, on the inside.
And when I think about that, I think that if nothing but being married will help a man, he's durn nigh hopeless.
It never occurred to him that now he was looking at his master, at the one person in all the world who held his fate right between her palms - me, in patched hand-me-downs and untrimmed hair and idiot smile - and that my hatred for him is pure and black and unforgiving. And that I don't believe in God, but if I did, if I did, it would be the God of Moses, angry and demanding and OUT FOR REVENGE.
Acquaintance. A person whom we know well enough to borrow from, but not well enough to lend to.
Part of the new morality of the '60s and '70s is a new attitude toward homosexuality. The homosexual men and women have organized to fight for acceptance and respectability.
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