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And in this passion for understanding her soul lay close to his; she had him all to herself. But he must be made abstract first.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that true intimacy requires a deep understanding and abstraction of the self.
In this quote by D. H. Lawrence, the speaker reflects on the intimate connection between two individuals, emphasizing that a genuine understanding of one's soul is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. The idea that 'he must be made abstract first' implies that before complete emotional closeness can be achieved, one must transcend their ego and identity, allowing for a purer, more authentic bond between lovers.
Themes
LoveUnderstandingIntimacyConnectionSoul
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a wedding speech to highlight the importance of understanding in love.
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