I urge you to sin. But not against these itty-bitty religions, Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism-or their secular derivatives, Marxism, Maoism, Freudianism and Jungianism-whic h are all derivatives of the big religion of patriarchy. Sin against the infrastructure itself!
Patriarchy appears to be everywhere. Even outer space and the future have been colonized. As a rule, even the more imaginative science-fiction writers (allegedly the most foretelling futurists) cannot/will not create a space and time in which women get far beyond the role of space stewardess.
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What this quote means
This quote critiques the pervasive influence of patriarchy, suggesting it extends even into imagined futures and realms like outer space.
Mary Daly's quote highlights the limitations placed on women's roles not only in contemporary society but also in speculative fiction, where even the most advanced scenarios continue to reflect traditional gender roles. By depicting women predominantly as 'space stewardesses,' it underscores the struggle for women's representation and agency in both literature and reality, implying that patriarchy is deeply entrenched and resistant to change even in our most creative visions of the future.
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Use this quote in a discussion on gender representation in media.
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