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I look young. I heard this said so often that it became irritating. I once worked as a babysitter for a woman who, the first time we met, said she didn't want somebody in high school. I was 22. Later, I realised that in certain places being female and looking 'young' meant it was more difficult to be taken seriously, so I turned to make-up.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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What this quote means

The quote highlights the challenges women face in being taken seriously based on their appearance, particularly when they look young.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie reflects on her experiences as a young woman entering the workforce, emphasizing how her youthful appearance often led others to underestimate her abilities and professionalism. This realization prompted her to adapt her appearance through make-up to navigate societal perceptions, shining a light on the pressure women experience to comply with certain beauty standards in order to be taken more seriously.

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YouthAppearanceGenderProfessionalismMakeup

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Example use cases

In a discussion about gender bias in the workplace, you could use this quote to illustrate the challenges women face.

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