The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
Charlotte Perkins GilmanRead
Woman" in the abstract is young, and, we assume, charming. As they get older they pass off the stage, somehow, into private ownership mostly, or out of it altogether.
Interpretation
The quote critiques societal perceptions of women as they age, emphasizing their diminishing visibility and value in public life.
Charlotte Perkins Gilman's quote reflects on the societal tendency to idealize women in their youth while neglecting their experiences and contributions as they age. It points out how women often become less visible and valued in public spaces as they grow older, suggesting a problematic view of womanhood that confines women to private, domestic roles instead of recognizing their ongoing worth in society.
In practice
This quote could be used in a women's rights discussion to illustrate societal biases.
The home is the centre and circumference, the start and the finish, of most of our lives.
To swallow and follow, whether old doctrine or new propaganda, is a weakness still dominating the human mind.
We all need one another; much and often. Just as every human creature needs a place to be alone in, a sacred, private "home" of his own, so all human creatures need a place to be together in, from the two who can show each other their souls uninterruptedly, to the largest throng that can throb and stir in unison.
Death is the essential condition of life, not an evil.
When the mother of the race is free, we shall have a better world, by the easy right of birth and by the calm, slow, friendly forces of evolution.
The children in this country are the one center and focus of all our thoughts. Every step of our advance is always considered in its effect on them-on the race. You see, we are MOTHERS, she repeated, as if in that she had said it all.
Only when a woman decides not to have children, can a woman live like a man. That's what I've done.
Patriarchy appears to be everywhere. Even outer space and the future have been colonized. As a rule, even the more imaginative science-fiction writers (allegedly the most foretelling futurists) cannot/will not create a space and time in which women get far beyond the role of space stewardess.
What works for a man, still does not work for a woman - both in terms of how they see themselves and how we see them.
Men are boys for such a long time and really don't start getting the great roles until they're in their mid-thirties. But then they've got a long time to do them, whereas for women, it's all about playing younger and younger and younger.
I look young. I heard this said so often that it became irritating. I once worked as a babysitter for a woman who, the first time we met, said she didn't want somebody in high school. I was 22. Later, I realised that in certain places being female and looking 'young' meant it was more difficult to be taken seriously, so I turned to make-up.
If you're a girl and you don't fit the very specific vision of what a girl should be, which is always from a man's perspective, then you're a little bit at a loss.
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