I have me brave women who are exploring the outer edge of human possibility, with no history to guide them, and with a courage to make themselves vulnerable that I find moving beyond words.
Rich cultures, patriarchal cultures, value thin women, like ours; poor ones value fat women. But all patriarchal cultures value weak women. So for women to become physically strong is very profound.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the societal standards imposed on women regarding their bodies and strength in different cultures.
Gloria Steinem's quote explores the contrasting values assigned to women based on cultural backgrounds and economic status. While affluent patriarchal societies tend to idealize thinness, economically challenged cultures often favor larger women. Despite these varying standards, a common theme across all patriarchal cultures is the preference for weak women. Steinem emphasizes that achieving physical strength among women represents a significant and empowering shift against these ingrained societal norms, suggesting that strength can become a powerful statement of independence and defiance against patriarchal expectations.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a women's empowerment conference, this quote can inspire a discussion on body image and societal expectations.
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