Are people the best judges of their own happiness, or outsiders? In defining happiness, should we think of entire lives or of shorter periods such as moments, days, or years? And to what extent are virtue and happiness linked?
Interpretation
The quote questions whether individuals or outsiders are better at judging happiness and how it should be measured over time in relation to virtue.
Sissela Bok's quote encourages deep reflection on the nature of happiness, probing whether one is a reliable judge of their own happiness or if external perspectives hold more weight. It raises fundamental questions about the temporal nature of happiness—should it be assessed in fleeting moments or across the entirety of a life? Furthermore, it suggests an exploration of the relationship between virtue and happiness, inviting us to consider how our moral choices impact our well-being.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the nature of happiness in psychology classes.
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In anything that does cover the whole of your life - in your philosophy and your religion - you must have mirth. If you do not have mirth you will certainly have madness.
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