Self pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.
John GardnerRead
People will tell you that writing is too difficult, that it's impossible to get your work published, that you might as well hang yourself. Meanwhile, they'll keep writing and you'll have hanged yourself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Pursuing writing can be challenging, but self-doubt shouldn't lead to despair.
This quote emphasizes the harsh realities and doubts that aspiring writers face, as well as the importance of perseverance. It illustrates how external negativity can deter one from following their passion, suggesting that while others may continue to create, succumbing to the pressure and despair only leads to stagnation and missed opportunities.
Themes
WritingPerseveranceMotivationSelf-DoubtAspiration
In practice
Example use cases
During a writers' workshop to inspire participants to overcome their fears of writing.
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