We weren't allowing our hopes to become expectations. Expectations are tempting, pleasant, maybe necessary. They are scary too, once you have had some experience. They are not necessarily and not always a bucket of smoke, but they can be and are even likely to be.
People use drugs, legal and illegal, because their lives are intolerably painful or dull. They hate their work and find no rest in their leisure. They are estranged from their families and their neighbors. It should tell us something that in healthy societies drug use is celebrative, convivial, and occasional, whereas among us it is lonely, shameful, and addictive. We need drugs, apparently, because we have lost each other.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the social and emotional reasons behind drug use, contrasting healthy societies with those where drug use is associated with loneliness and shame.
Wendell Berry's quote emphasizes the profound human need for connection and fulfillment, suggesting that the desire to use drugs—either legal or illegal—often stems from a deep sense of pain, emptiness, or disconnection in one's life. In societies where people are emotionally healthy and connected, drug use is a celebration of social life; however, in less connected societies, it turns into a source of shame and isolation, indicating a broader social malaise where individuals feel estranged from their communities and loved ones.
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This quote could be used in a discussion about mental health awareness in community forums.
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