We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
People go on postponing everything that is meaningful. Tomorrow they will laugh; today, money has to be gathered... more money, more power, more things, more gadgets. Tomorrow they will love - today there is no time. But tomorrow never comes, and one day they find themselves burdened with all kinds of gadgets, burdened with money. They have come to the top of the ladder - and there is nowhere to go except to jump in a lake.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote warns against postponing meaningful experiences for material pursuits, highlighting the emptiness of such delays.
Rajneesh emphasizes the danger of prioritizing material wealth and power over rich, meaningful experiences and relationships. He suggests that people often defer love and joy to a vague 'tomorrow,' which never arrives, ultimately leading to a life filled with burdens rather than fulfillment. The metaphor of reaching the top of a ladder only to find no place to go underscores the futility of chasing superficial goals at the expense of genuine connections.
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Example use cases
During a motivational speech, one might quote this to encourage the audience to prioritize experiences over material gains.
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