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People can't seem to get it through their heads that there is never any healing or closure. Ever. There is only a short pause before the next "horrifying" event. People forget there is such a thing as memory, and that when a wound "heals" it leaves a permanent scar that never goes away, but merely fades a little. What really ought to be said after one of these so-called tragedies is, "Let the scarring begin.
George Carlin
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Healing is an ongoing process, not a complete resolution, and scars from trauma remain with us.

George Carlin's quote emphasizes that true healing from traumatic events is a continuous journey rather than a definitive end point. He suggests that while people often expect closure after a tragedy, the memories and scars of these experiences persist and shape our lives, urging us to recognize the long-lasting impact of our experiences rather than ignoring them.

Themes

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In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about trauma recovery, one might mention Carlin's quote to highlight the ongoing nature of healing.

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